LISTEN AND REACT
Find new topics in the latest answer
If someone talks about a hobby, ask how it started. If they mention a trip, ask what they enjoyed most.
WHEN A TOPIC ENDS
Move on through a natural connection
Food can lead to travel, travel to holidays and holidays to future plans.
AFTER A PAUSE
Return to something you already shared
Ask how something went or return to an unfinished topic.
Pauses are normal
An online conversation does not need to run constantly.
GIVE THEM SOMETHING TO USE
Avoid replying only with yes, no or me too
Add a small detail or opinion.
DO NOT PLAN EVERYTHING
A good conversation eventually feels natural
When both of you bring topics spontaneously, you no longer need a strategy.